人际关系的慢性杀手

很多人觉得，彼此越是相熟，互相泼冷水，冷言暗讽，其实无伤大雅，不伤感情。

可凭什么这么认为呢？

可能大家觉得关系已是非一般，小玩笑开得起，玩得起。
可能是因为两者间已卸下陌生的装备，流露出真性情，只有知己情人才有这样不一样的互动。
可能打是情骂是爱，越当你是自己人才会越不客气。

可能。可能。

只是，本来的两小无猜，往往都因为分寸拿捏不宜，过火了。

爱情友情亲情慢性致死的凶手之一，就是泼冷水。

人非钢铁啊。

一路走来。谢谢。

第三名。

结束了。

谢谢。

今天以后

加油！
最后一场了
不要让自己失望

曾经的自己

一觉醒来

今天的自己 

怀

     念

昨天的自己

明天的自己

正 

    等

        着

成为今天的自己

人

念念不忘的

是曾经的自己

为了接下来遇到的人

为了自己

忘掉。往前。

沟通

沟通是一门毕生探究的学问。

对牛弹琴，不代表弹琴的就是道理。因为双方从来就没有在正面沟通。草照吃，琴照弹。

说某人机车、死脑筋，可他从来都搞不懂为什么他就是机车就是死脑筋。反过来，他还会说你没原则、见风使舵 ------- 这时和他争孰是孰非，赢了又怎样？输了又怎样？

都不重要了。

我们要的是沟通管道，一个大家愿意放下成见，能打开耳朵去聆听，理解的管道。在批判和指责他人之前，理解他人行为背后的原因或许可以就此避开不必要的冲突。

只是我们常常捂住自己的耳朵，在自己的山头摇旗呐喊。

实在叫人气愤。

Day 9 in C.A.P - Just In Time

When the time is near to 5, my mind concentration increase,and my body starts to activate.
I have to do things faster, immediately respond and action. Time is limited.

15 minutes to 5, and................things done!!! One - day- goal reached!

Packed my things, hand in my work to boss,and prepared to back HOME .

From 9am to 5pm, everything's just in time. =)




Good feeling of the day : As what people say , 快快乐乐上班，平平安安回家 ~ =)

Day 8 in C.A.P - Do not be greedy

Delivering a message is not an easy task.

        It involves several processes , which is detecting, researching, reading, selecting and packaging an information. There is a huge amount of information, messages, comments, news, journals circulating all over the world. It is hard to differentiate the true and false, it's harder to conclude and summarise the content, it's hardest to pick and choose the one or two points to deliver.

        The thing is, one would become so excited as he found something to share with. He feel the audience should know A, B, C, D. He would end up giving loads of "feeling good" info without realizing the fact that readers could only accept one or two messages : it could be a sentence, a statistic, a picture, that's all for it.

         Even so, the process of reading and grabbing mountains of information could not be skipped. It just like shooting the arrow through an apple. Full efforts needed to pull the bow back before you could hit the target accurately. 

        That is why advertiser always squeeze everything they want to say into a slogan. To prevent the audiences from forgetting or overlooking them, the advertising just keep repeating. They are not greedy, but they are greedy indeed.

Lessons of the day : To not be greedy, be greedy. To target on something, make more efforts. Quantity comes before quality.