结束了。
谢谢。
Sunday, November 24, 2013
Tuesday, November 19, 2013
Thursday, November 14, 2013
Tuesday, October 8, 2013
沟通
沟通是一门毕生探究的学问。
对牛弹琴，不代表弹琴的就是道理。因为双方从来就没有在正面沟通。草照吃，琴照弹。
说某人机车、死脑筋，可他从来都搞不懂为什么他就是机车就是死脑筋。反过来，他还会说你没原则、见风使舵 ------- 这时和他争孰是孰非，赢了又怎样？输了又怎样？
都不重要了。
我们要的是沟通管道，一个大家愿意放下成见，能打开耳朵去聆听，理解的管道。在批判和指责他人之前，理解他人行为背后的原因或许可以就此避开不必要的冲突。
只是我们常常捂住自己的耳朵，在自己的山头摇旗呐喊。
实在叫人气愤。
对牛弹琴，不代表弹琴的就是道理。因为双方从来就没有在正面沟通。草照吃，琴照弹。
说某人机车、死脑筋，可他从来都搞不懂为什么他就是机车就是死脑筋。反过来，他还会说你没原则、见风使舵 ------- 这时和他争孰是孰非，赢了又怎样？输了又怎样？
都不重要了。
我们要的是沟通管道，一个大家愿意放下成见，能打开耳朵去聆听，理解的管道。在批判和指责他人之前，理解他人行为背后的原因或许可以就此避开不必要的冲突。
只是我们常常捂住自己的耳朵，在自己的山头摇旗呐喊。
实在叫人气愤。
Friday, July 12, 2013
Day 9 in C.A.P - Just In Time
When the time is near to 5, my mind concentration increase,and my body starts to activate.
I have to do things faster, immediately respond and action. Time is limited.
15 minutes to 5, and................things done!!! One - day- goal reached!
Packed my things, hand in my work to boss,and prepared to back HOME .
From 9am to 5pm, everything's just in time. =)
Good feeling of the day : As what people say , 快快乐乐上班，平平安安回家 ~ =)
I have to do things faster, immediately respond and action. Time is limited.
15 minutes to 5, and................things done!!! One - day- goal reached!
Packed my things, hand in my work to boss,and prepared to back HOME .
From 9am to 5pm, everything's just in time. =)
Good feeling of the day : As what people say , 快快乐乐上班，平平安安回家 ~ =)
Thursday, July 11, 2013
Day 8 in C.A.P - Do not be greedy
Delivering a message is not an easy task.
It involves several processes , which is detecting, researching, reading, selecting and packaging an information. There is a huge amount of information, messages, comments, news, journals circulating all over the world. It is hard to differentiate the true and false, it's harder to conclude and summarise the content, it's hardest to pick and choose the one or two points to deliver.
The thing is, one would become so excited as he found something to share with. He feel the audience should know A, B, C, D. He would end up giving loads of "feeling good" info without realizing the fact that readers could only accept one or two messages : it could be a sentence, a statistic, a picture, that's all for it.
Even so, the process of reading and grabbing mountains of information could not be skipped. It just like shooting the arrow through an apple. Full efforts needed to pull the bow back before you could hit the target accurately.
That is why advertiser always squeeze everything they want to say into a slogan. To prevent the audiences from forgetting or overlooking them, the advertising just keep repeating. They are not greedy, but they are greedy indeed.
Lessons of the day : To not be greedy, be greedy. To target on something, make more efforts. Quantity comes before quality.
Day 7 in C.A.P - Alexander's 3 Great Wishes
Alexander The Great, after conquering many kingdoms, was returning home. On the way, he fell ill and it took him to his death bed.
He called his generals and said, "I will depart from this world soon, I have three wishes, please carry them out without fail."
With tears flowing down their cheeks, the generals agreed to abide by their king's last wishes.
"My first desire is that", said Alexander, "My physicians alone must" carry my coffin."
"Secondly, I desire that when my coffin is being carried to the grave, the path leading to the graveyard be strewn with gold, silver and precious stones which I have collected in my treasury".
"My third and last wish is that both my hands be kept dangling out of my coffin".
The people who had gathered there wondered at the king's strange wishes. But no one dared bring the question to their lips.. Alexander's favorite general kissed his hand and pressed them to his heart.
"O king, we assure you that all your wishes will be fulfilled. But tell us why do you make such strange wishes?"
At this Alexander took a deep breath and said:"I would like the world to know of the three lessons I have just learnt. Lessons to be learnt from last 3 wishes of King Alexander...I want my physicians to carry my coffin because people should realize that no doctor on this earth can really cure any body. They are powerless and cannot save a person from the clutches of death. So let not people take life for granted.
The second wish of strewing gold, silver and other riches on the path to the graveyard is to tell People that not even a fraction of gold will come with me. I spent all my life Greed of Power, earning riches but cannot take anything with me. Let people realize that it is a sheer waste of time to chase wealth.
About my third wish of having my hands dangling out of the coffin, I wish people to know that I came empty handed into this world and empty handed I go out of this world".
With these words, the king closed his eyes.Soon he let death conquer him and breathed his last. . . .
Stories of the day : People strive for 3 things in their life : health, wealth, prosperity. Though, it should be done in a sustainable way.
He called his generals and said, "I will depart from this world soon, I have three wishes, please carry them out without fail."
With tears flowing down their cheeks, the generals agreed to abide by their king's last wishes.
"My first desire is that", said Alexander, "My physicians alone must" carry my coffin."
"Secondly, I desire that when my coffin is being carried to the grave, the path leading to the graveyard be strewn with gold, silver and precious stones which I have collected in my treasury".
"My third and last wish is that both my hands be kept dangling out of my coffin".
The people who had gathered there wondered at the king's strange wishes. But no one dared bring the question to their lips.. Alexander's favorite general kissed his hand and pressed them to his heart.
"O king, we assure you that all your wishes will be fulfilled. But tell us why do you make such strange wishes?"
At this Alexander took a deep breath and said:"I would like the world to know of the three lessons I have just learnt. Lessons to be learnt from last 3 wishes of King Alexander...I want my physicians to carry my coffin because people should realize that no doctor on this earth can really cure any body. They are powerless and cannot save a person from the clutches of death. So let not people take life for granted.
The second wish of strewing gold, silver and other riches on the path to the graveyard is to tell People that not even a fraction of gold will come with me. I spent all my life Greed of Power, earning riches but cannot take anything with me. Let people realize that it is a sheer waste of time to chase wealth.
About my third wish of having my hands dangling out of the coffin, I wish people to know that I came empty handed into this world and empty handed I go out of this world".
With these words, the king closed his eyes.Soon he let death conquer him and breathed his last. . . .
Stories of the day : People strive for 3 things in their life : health, wealth, prosperity. Though, it should be done in a sustainable way.
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